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Mother Retreat

The Birth and Motherhood Collective Retreat is filled with hot cuppas, cake and chats with like minded women.

An afternoon entirely for you to rest, relax and reconnect with yourself, and see how truly amazing you really are….

 

Picture this……

 

You walk through the door to a hot cuppa, a cosy spot to sit/lay down to pause, take a breath and chat with like-minded women, and you instantly feel held and heard. 

 

Mother Retreat is an afternoon of deep relaxation,chats and reflection where you will leave feeling rested, loved and lighter than before. 

 

Sounds dreamy hey?

 

Well, it’s not a dream, it's happening and you can be part of it….

What's included? 

 

WhatsApp group to connect ahead of the retreat.

 

Cuppa’s, cake and welcome circle

 

Essential oil and bath salt making with a blend to take home

 

Creative Journalling 

 

Lunch and refreshments 

 

Guided Deep relaxation

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Where and When? 

 

Sunday July 5th, 12:15- 3:15pm

Crockenhill Village Hall, Stones Cross Rd, Crockenhill, Swanley BR8 8LT

Guided by: Lou - Mama and Birthworker

COST: £85

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GATHER

Something powerful happens when women gather, seismic shifts occur physically and psychologically.

Mother Circles aren't there to fix you or provide all the answers but they are there to hear and hold you. 

GATHER offers you a space to be held and heard in circle with like-minded women to pause, rest, reflect and reconnect with yourself and each other in deep conversation and guided relaxation, from the comfort of your own home. 

Come in your comfies, PJ's, lay in bed, on a mat, sit, be in the garden...come as you are!

You may feel rested and lighter than before when you've gathered in a circle and been held and heard with and by like-minded women.

Whether you're pregnant, holding your newborn or mothering children of any age, this space is for you. 

Places are limited to 10 to enable deep, intimate and safe conversations and connection. 

Investment: £12 per session 

When’s the next chance to join GATHER?

GATHER will meet once a month on a Wednesday evening 8-9:30pm

July 8th, August 5th, September 9th, October 7th, November 4th and Decebember 2nd 2026

Online via Zoom

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Cuppa and a Chat

What is it?

Have you been preparing for the birth of your baby but still have a couple of things you'd like to explore?

 

Perhaps you're torn between where to give birth, planning a vaginal birth after a Caesarean (VBAC), planned Caesarean, or want a birth debrief or something else regarding your preconception, pregnancy and birth.

 

In these sessions I hold the space and ask the questions to help you explore and untangle your concerns so you can lean into your responsiblity with your choices and  decision making.

This is your space to be honest, dig deep and pick my brain.  

Whose it for?

These sessions are for you if you would like to explore your pre-conception, pregnancy and birth with a specific topic/issue in a 1-1 session from the comfort of your own home. 

What does it involve?

  • A brief questionnaire ahead of the session for Louise to review and prepare any resources/ information ahead of our chat. 

  • Tailored one to one 90 minute session over Zoom. 

  • Follow-up email with an overview of our chat and links for resources/signposting

What is my investment?

£90

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MOTHER CIRCLE

Becoming a Mother can be the most amazing experience.

 

Motherhood can be hilarious, dark, beautiful, lonely, brutal, loving and messy.

 

The tensions can be one hell of a ride throughout your mothering journeys but co-existence of emotions is more common and more vital than we may think, and certainly more than what society would lead us to believe.

There is actually a name for it....Matrescence - the transition you make into and throughout your mothering journeys. The latter being a key part, throughout your mothering journeys.

 

We often hear of the postpartum journey as if this is something that disappears when we emerge from the newborn bubble. Yet the reality is we continue to (un)learn, grow, explore and navigate this role way beyond those first few months and years. We nurture ourselves and our wildlings throughout our mothering journeys, and that's OK, hell it's vital!

 

Like adolescence, matrescence is a time of change both mentally and physically. However, unlike adolescence there is still very little understanding, acceptance or support, across much of western society, for the transitions women make in Motherhood.

 

In a time where many of us no longer live near or with our ‘village’, aren't connected to or with our elders, especially female ones who share their wisdom of mothering, it can feel overwhelming as we transition from maiden to mother.

You may have moments where you wonder…

 

🌿 Who is holding you physically or emotionally, who is holding space for you to share how you are feeling?

 

🌿 Who is holding you when or if you wish to share your birth story, however that unfolded, who is asking how your birth was?

 

🌿 Who is holding you when you don't know how to feel about the wave of hormones and emotions, in the depths of sleep deprivation and overwhelm, rage, anxiety, and a love like no other?

 

🌿 Who is holding you when you feel so much love you feel you may burst?

I am interested in holding you, holding space with and for you on your transition into early motherhood and beyond. Because that support shouldn’t stop just because they’re now walking, talking, at nursery, school or working.  

 

I am interested in sitting in silence with you, hearing your cries, your laughter, all the feelings you wish to release, knowing this can change from one moment to the next, and that's OK.


 

This is Mother Circle

 

There is something powerful when women gather and hold space with and for each other to pause, reflect and reconnect with yourself and other women in a supportive and nurturing space. 

 

This is what The Birth and Motherhood Collective Mother Circle is all about. 

 

The Mother Circle is your space and time to speak freely without the distractions, pull and need to be doing something for others, this is your time to (re)connect, share experiences and build community with other women. 

 

Sharing is 100% optional. If you feel more comfortable listening, that’s OK, follow your needs; this is your space. 

The most valuable thing I've ever done for myself thank you - Mother Circle Participant

 

Ready to be part of Mother Circle?

Here’s what’s included (in person only): 

 

Six weekly sessions with guided relaxation, space for nourishing chats, snacks and drinks to help you rest, relax and reconnect. 

 

Gift Bag filled with treats just for you. 

Craft Materials for each creative session. 

Connection with women in the community. The group will be 5-7 women max to enable deep, intimate and safe conversations and connection. 

Access to a private Whatsapp Group to remain connected to those in your circle. 

 

Everything shared will remain confidential – this is one of the sacred principles of the space.

Who is Mother Circle for? 

 

Whether you’re pregnant, holding your newborn or mothering children of any age, this space is for you.

 

Whilst this is a mother only circle, babes in arms are absolutely welcome are welcome to in person circles. 

Online circles are from the comfort of your own home, come in your comfies, pjs with wildlings or solo - come as you're. 

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I like the atmosphere and the vibe which is non judgemental.

Moms can share their stories in turn. Being a person who is less likely to share in a new environment, I found it extremely encouraging and safe for me to speak my mind and my experiences.

Mother Circle Participant

Investment

£120

for six weeks in person Circle 

Payment plans available

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​​When’s the next chance to join  

Mother Circle?​​

 

The next in person circle will start September 17th  7:30-9pm

The full 6 week dates: September 17th, 24th, October 1st, 8th, 15th and 22nd 2026

Location: The Church Room All Souls' Church, Eynsford Rd, Crockenhill, BR8 8JS

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Let’s Connect

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